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Saturday, December 8, 2007

My Dirty Little Secret

With much angst and great anticipation, I opened the crisp pages of the newspaper. It had been many years since I had traversed the help wanted ads, but I knew I needed to do something to get myself out from behind my computer and moving! I also could use a few friends, having just relocated to Plymouth after living in the same community for 15 years. Little did I know that I was about the embark on a most amazing experience that would leave me changed for life.

It was then that I saw the ad for a "Dry Harvester." My heart skipped a beat! What? Work in the sun, get paid to exercise, and actually be able to leave your troubles at the office at the end of the day? I'm in! But how would I ever be able to keep this is a secret from my friends and family? What would they think of me, working a farming job? I would need to figure that one out later.

As I drove to the office to fill out the application, I had not recalled feeling that nervous in a long time. What if they don't hire college educated people? What if they don't hire women? What if they don't hire moms? What if, what if, what if!

And two weeks later, I was at the company orientation, being instructed on the ins and outs of dry harvesting cranberries. I was completely unaware that the most profound lessons I would learn, would only come from hands on experience. I could never do them justice in a short blog, but here are a few...

  • Cranberry Harvesting is a very complex and fascinating business. Maintaining the bogs is a 24-7 job, 365 days a year.
  • General labor, unskilled labor, menial labor- however you choose to define it, is indeed LABOR!
  • Immigrant workers (and I'm not talking about illegal immigrants) are an extremely hard working and valuable and part of our economy- period. Don't even think about taking a stand against immigrants until you REALLY understand what they do for this country. I have seen it, and they are amazing!
  • Producing a quality crop involves hard work from man (and woman) power, a variety of mechanical equipment (including helicopters) and amazing computer systems.
  • It is important to hold your shirt down when the helicopters fly overhead, to avoid flashing nearby co-workers.
  • Cranberries WILL stain designer jeans.
  • Women work just as hard as the men (well, actually, we've been known to work a little harder!)
  • Watching a dedicated and passionate farmer is truly a thing of beauty.

The type of work that I do does not usually lend itself to immediate results. I must continually remind myself that I have impacted people in a positive ways. This experience was one of the first in my life where I could walk away at the end of the day and physically see, if you will allow me... "the fruits of my labor." And it has become one that I am proud to share with family and friends. I know that it may seem silly to say this because it has become so cliche, but the food on the table that some of us often take for granted, really is worthy of our thanks. I can assure you it arrived there because of great devotion on the part of the farmer.

See you on the bogs!

The Cranberry Diva

Monday, December 3, 2007

Treat Yourself Like Company

"Nothing says holidays, like a cheese log." ~Ellen DeGeneres

The Holiday season is officially here, at least that's what I learned when I was a child. My mom always said it becomes official when Santa arrives at the Macy's Day parade. So, tis the season to be jolly! We are now supposed to feel joy and bliss, and fill our hearts with love and giving! Stay with me here...

it could happen.

There are many people who have mastered the ability to embrace the spirit of the holiday season. If you are one of those people, I congratulate you! But let's be real. For some of us, the holidays are a time of great stress and anxiety.
One of the ways I often see (and experience) additional holiday stress is through the urge to "should" on oneself. This may sound something like this...

"I should send Aunt Ginny a Holiday card."
"I should polish the silver for the guests."
"I should stay in my budget."
"I shouldn't have spent so much."
"I should give a tip to..."
"I should pass on dessert."
"I shouldn't have eaten that dessert."
"I should get along with my mother-in-law."
'I shouldn't have argued with my mother-in-law."

And the list goes on...

For many reasons, some of us revert back to old and familiar patterns when we are surrounded by family. Expectations once imposed on us by said family, have become self-imposed, since we are now free-thinking adults with choices.
This holiday season, if you find yourself feeling the urge to should on yourself, or giving in to those old familiar, yet uncomfortable patterns, take a minute to get aligned with your values. The passion, the essence, the real you. Not the one you pretend to be in times of stress.

And if all else fails, simply remember to treat yourself like company. Trust me, you deserve it!